Say thank you...

They say Rome was not built in a day and it would have taken them years to build it. This, we can relate to us and our lives. It has been the same routine for us and yes, we can laugh at ourselves for this, the way we try to make resolutions every now and then to correct ourselves and end up being the same old person. Making resolutions and the reasons behind it are actually apt and strong ones as well, which when taken positively can help us in changing or correcting ourselves.

When one commits a mistake, that person gets criticised. Getting criticised by others and letting others correct us is a good thing. One may feel bad about getting criticised but trust me, criticism is one of the best things that can happen to us. Take criticism as a motivation, positive note to correct oneself.

Life puts us through hard times, we must get through them to become stronger. Accepting a criticism is hard but it makes us strong enough that we change certain things about ourselves. But after all the hardships the final results are always beautiful. These changes that we make in our lives or changing ourselves bring happiness, joy into our lives and eventually makes us a better person. We should take criticism positively and actually thank people for criticising because it makes us determined to make changes,become stronger and polished. Just like a sculptor chipping the piece of wood to make a beautiful sculpture out of it. The final results are always beautiful. Criticism has the power to change everything about us. We just have to take it positively, be thankful rather than feeling bad about it and we can see magic happening in our lives.

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