Life, as it is!

      Its been a long way since this morning, certainly things have changed now a days.  Everyday, its the same routine but the way of seeing things have definitely  changed.
      We have heard the line "Life is short, make it sweet", according  to me this line makes a lot of sense.Life is not short, technically some may live longer and some may have a shorter  lifespan, but that should not make a difference  to us. Instead  of seeing life as period  of time or a span of time,we can try to make that lifespan beautiful!
        Cherishing  the small moments  from our day to day life can certainly make a large difference. Everyone of us will have the option of making  our lives  beautiful but it lies in our own hands to choose it or not. In this technical era, we tend to forget about all these small things that we have to experience and cherish. We tend to involve in our work so much that we don't give time for ourselves or our loved ones.
        Making time for our loved ones, ourselves, family, friends and the society matters a lot. Having a cup of coffee all by yourself, a little chit-chat with your parents, a few  memorable moments with your siblings,fooling around with friends, these are the moments that we can treasure for ever. These are the moments we can think and smile at when  we are old. They also help us to understand ourselves and our loved ones.
        We may feel that with money comes happiness but these are the moments that  we cannot experience or have once time passes away. They bring happiness, understanding, makes our relationships stronger and helps us to gather all the feelings together . We have to take this as a step and try to change our lifestyle. These little details can bring about a lot of changes in our lives and make our lives fulfill with happiness and joy.

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