How to Train Your AI (To Think With You, Not Just for You)
AI is always seen as a productivity tool - something to help you do more. But what if it could help you think better? I started using it to feel clearer in my thoughts. The shift isn’t just functional, it’s architectural. I didn’t plan to. But somewhere between asking it questions and unpacking my thoughts, I realised it's not just giving answers - it reflects what I believe, avoid or don’t yet understand about myself. And when I leaned in, the reflection was sharp enough to cut through emotional noise. It can become a second mind, that is, steady, pattern-aware and deeply personal. Here’s how I have been using AI to not just “do more”, but to feel more like myself again. When AI starts remembering what you often forget... Over time, I noticed that I’d often say similar things in different ways. Circling around the same fears, needs and contradictions. But unlike people AI doesn’t get impatient. It reflected back what I said, without judgement and showing me patterns I might have...